Why do men heal their complexes over women?

I’m sitting in front of the laptop and staring into the screen wondering what will I write for this blog! I’m feeling like I’m stuck in some kind of movie; writing sentences and deleting them because they’re not good enough.

Good enough! Right! Yesterday I was watching TV show where they were talking about complexes. Why do men heal their complexes over woman? Is it abuse or they’re just hiding behind it?

We always think that women are those with complexes but that is not true. Some man can be jealous because she’s successful or pretty or very capable. He would rather say; You had luck with job or You’ve gotten it because you flirted; why did you wear that skirt it looks terrible on you; you can’t live without me etc... I could go on, it’s a long list there.

Yesterday I heard woman saying that her boyfriend told her; "You look hot but you have cellulite on your butt." 

Common! Really! 

What happened to romance and kindness?!

When you look from one side it sounds cute he’s jealous but from the other side it’s mean. Small things hurt our feelings. I know sometimes words hurt more than anything else. 

I was wondering what is main problem here? Is it because women are more independent and stronger than they were before? Is it because of changing roles? 

It is really hard to say or explain. The only thing I know is that you/we have to run away from those types of man. Those complexes can start to be more like psychological abuse instead of showing insecurities. 

That is much more psychological problem that I rather wouldn’t write about now. I wanted to mention complexes because it sounded interesting and because it is some kind of rivalry between women and men. Why are we always in second plan? 

Okay, I won’t get long this blog post. I just wanted to say that you are beautiful the way you are. We all are unique in some way. We are made piece by piece like God’s art. 

You should be happy because there’s no person like you in this world!

You worth! You are unique! You are beautiful!

Take care,

Ammi